Mediation: How does it work?

Payment for mediation is flexible and can be arranged according to personal preferences. Couples may choose to split the cost equally, pay from a joint account, or have one party cover the expenses.

Rather than requiring a large upfront payment, we invoice at the end of each mediation session. The cost of mediation is discussed thoroughly before the process begins.

The initial Mediation and Assessment Meetings are £250+ VAT each, with ongoing sessions charged at an hourly rate. Typically, the final total cost ranges between £2,000 – £5,000 + VAT, depending on the number of sessions required. It is worth noting that there is a government voucher scheme offering up to £500 per couple for joint sessions involving children.

The number of sessions varies for each couple, typically ranging from 2-5 meetings. It is essential that our trained mediators recognise that the couple is progressing through the mediation sessions, and if we feel that we’re going round in circles, alternative routes will be suggested to ensure you get the most out of your journey with us.

Mediation is voluntary, except when either party seeks a court application regarding finances or child arrangements. In this case, a qualified mediator will need to sign off the application form, and an individual meeting is held for that purpose.

Mediation may not be suitable in cases of significant power imbalances, past domestic violence, or where one party feels anxious about participating. Mediation is perfect for couples who are able to come together and sit back slightly from the emotion, with the joint goal of making decisions that are completely future focussed and in the interests of both parties. Where mediation might not be suitable, alternative processes will be recommended to you.

We don’t offer mediation over the phone simply in the interest of your comfort and safety. Our expert mediators are trained to read subtleties in body language, to identify if one half of the couple is feeling uncomfortable, upset, or distressed. We do however provide options like shuttle mediation or video calls to accommodate couples’ preferences while ensuring a safe and productive environment.

Mediation involves couples making decisions together with the guidance of a mediator, while arbitration entails a neutral judge making decisions for the couple.

At Scott Bailey, our team of experienced family law solicitors and trained mediators are dedicated to assisting couples through the mediation process. With our expertise and commitment to neutrality, we are able to facilitate constructive communication in a peaceful and friendly environment, while achieving mutually beneficial outcomes for our clients. Whether you require assistance with child arrangements, financial matters, or both, our team is here to support you every step of the way.